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msggrl
01/19/2011 02:33 am

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what would u do if u where in my shoes?

client 1

been to establishment many times before
clearly knew policy was therapeutic
always tipped that therapist 40 for no he

knows normal session is double what client typically pays
client goes for a slight upgraded session and was asked ahead if wanted the best service client declined


so i massaged the JERK being nice and polite client keep touching me and trying to strip me naked... i keep moving so he woulD stop touching me SERIOUSLY Y DO I NEED TO TELL YOU STOP FRIKEN TOUCHING ME IF A GIRL MOVES IT MEAN DONT FRIKEN TOUCH HER!

i told the client i am the highest skilled and most lenient if he wanted a higher session he should have paid for it i do not work for free he already touched me which is not allowed and i was not paid for it. he said well it fiqures id have to pay more

i ended the massage 10 min early because of rudeness

the client has not came back and im not sad


questions

he paid me less than what he typically pays in a standard session because of the tip
he did not tip me and was upset at me because i wouldnt let him touch me i wouldnt get naked and i wouldnt give him a happy ending
im higher skilled and more attractive and nicer than the other therapist he usually sees

wth is the problem here?
he broke policy by molesting me and YES HE DID MOLEST ME HE WENT way to damn far and i still stuck with the massage instead of walking out and he has the nerve to get mad at me? i dont think i cold have dont anything to make this guy happy other than selling myself less which ill never do
hiroller
01/19/2011 04:33 am

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I don't think you did anything wrong. You stuck by your principles. That's what you should do, so no problem.
JDPhantom
01/19/2011 04:47 am

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It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong either. The guy sounds like he got it into his head someplace that if you go to a place often enough, HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras will be offered. Or maybe his radar was way out of whack and he was seriously mis-reading the situation. Either way though...

I think the only thing I might have done differently, if I were in your shoes, would have been to lay the law down a lot earlier and a lot firmer; if he tried for a second grab after being told "No," just say (with no room for compromise), "We're done. Get dressed. Get out." and given him his money back to really show that you meant business. If he still persisted, telling him you'd call the police wouldn't have been out of line either.

At the beginning of your post, you said that he always tipped "that therapist." I'm guessing you're not his regular therapist. If there was another, could she have been offering a little extra and maybe he took it that everyone there did?
msggrl
01/19/2011 05:14 am

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i was not his regular therapist
first time he came he did an executive massage 200 ( basically the membership fee)
then he was another therapist 100 and tiped her 40 saw her 3 times never got anything
saw me then was a total ass paid 125 i was forced to see him i tried my damnedest not to i had every excuse but the ass wouldnt leave!

that therapist he saw a few times wont even let u self serve and he tips her $40
i know what everyone does and does not do and theirs a set price for tipping.. for every client request...

i try to be lenient to make the company look better instead of making them think we are a rip off

usually once a client sees me they wont see any other girl. if they try another they come back to me..

y he didnt stay with the executive massage idk because his 140(tip included) didnt even get him self service with that girl

possibly he felt he spent enough he was bound and determined to get something out of me
JDPhantom
01/20/2011 05:17 am

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msggrl wrote:
possibly he felt he spent enough he was bound and determined to get something out of me


That's pretty much what was probably going through his head. I'm just glad it's over and done with and you (hopefully) won't have to deal with him again.
thomaso
01/20/2011 12:36 pm

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He paid $140 three times and did not get anything but a massage? That doesn't sound right somehow.
thomaso
01/20/2011 12:37 pm

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He paid $140 three times and did not get anything but a massage? That doesn't sound right somehow.
msggrl
01/20/2011 06:24 pm

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thomaso wrote:
He paid $140 three times and did not get anything but a massage? That doesn't sound right somehow.
he was 100% aware that therapist he was was never going to do anything with him he was told every time he came in he still tipped her 40 for the massage every time.

i get tipped 40 many times for a 1 hour therapeutic massage. if ur good at what u do some are willing to tip very well

thats the difference between me and a common rub & flip girl i know what im doing skilled certified full knowledge of anatomy .I listen to what client ask for and i try to execute to best of my ability...

1 hour deep tissue i charge 150 w/o HE by the end of the hour im sweat and ive kicked ur ass just like u wanted me to
JDPhantom
01/21/2011 05:31 am

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I have a feeling it was really going in one ear and out the other with that guy; he checked his brain at the door and his libido was on auto-pilot.

I don't know if I'd really want my ass to be kicked, even if I might enjoy it
Mr.Mojo
01/21/2011 10:31 am

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For $70 you can get 1 hour of kick ass deep tissue at any Chinese massage parlor in MN .
Derpdydoo
01/21/2011 02:12 pm

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Agree Mr. Mojo! If I leave 100+ lighter and I haven't shot a load, there's not going to be a return visit.
msggrl
01/23/2011 04:40 am

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Mr.Mojo wrote:
For $70 you can get 1 hour of kick ass deep tissue at any Chinese massage parlor in MN .



i have yet to hear this... in this state..

i always hear the massages are not good mostly a rub & flip id be interested if u know of places who do a very deep tissue w/o HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras to send my fam to ( i get tired of working on family) and they would be upset if they got HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras.

i have to go out of state to be worked on i have yet to find a therapist in mn that knows how to work on me
JDPhantom
01/23/2011 06:05 am

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Several years ago, there were a couple of great therapists at Training for Life. I wouldn't be on their tables more than maybe five minutes and I'd be out. Hour, hour and a half later I'd wake up (turned over, no less; I rarely remembered flipping over but I was always draped) feeling majorly refreshed and rejuvenated, like I had just had the best nine hours of sleep just in that short time span. I never asked about any HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras and they never offered, and I think that right there really helped make those sessions as great as they were. The last time I went, back in 2006, the 90-minute rate was $80; like the dork I can be, I was late for that appointment but, with just a phone call, Tara kept that time open for me and even gave me another ten minutes or so, time that cut into her break between appointments. That day she was well worth that $50 tip.

Sadly, both of those ladies have moved on and now, from the sounds of things, Training for Life has nothing but untrained, unskilled, and untalented independents working there.
Mr.Mojo
01/23/2011 10:32 am

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Most of the Chinese massage Parlors are Legit and they do give you a good massage for your money, but most of us men do want a good massage with HE.

Try Ashiatsu if you really want a deep deep tissue i Know a therapist that will put you asleep.
msggrl
01/23/2011 10:49 pm

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TARA was she filipino yougn cute girl? their 2 taras 1 know the cutie is a legit gal



their are 2 legit gals their now amber who does ashiatus whom ive worked with before great gal certified! and lauralie who visits because she travels all around the us and country.

now everyone else their is a poor cry for a therapist . i left because of the owner is a total ass and to much negativity that formerly made mantra look bad who r now renting training for life indy not to mention other girls... mantra did the right thing by moving the owner is a total ass!!!!


dawn marie is another one to stay away from pretty much if u ever go to TFL ask if their certified if their not id decline seeing them their... their not going to give u a good massage
JDPhantom
01/24/2011 04:33 am

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Nah, the Tara I knew was tall, about six feet, and very slender. She had a medium olive-brown skin, blue eyes, a kittenish face, and dark brown hair -- that she had in dreadlocks.

I'm not really comfortable with ashiastu. My back's not the best (strained it back in the early '90s and it hasn't really been the same since) and even though Star from Method did an excellent job with it (she just did it -- didn't ask me, didn't warn me -- she just did it), I'm really a bit paranoid and protective about it.

Msggrl: Your sentence turned into a bit of a run-on, but if I'm understanding the gist of what you're saying, a guy should stay away from the indies at Training for Life, but the therapists at Mantra Body Temple are...good? Um, no offense, but from what I've heard, Mantra's pretty much hit or miss and, well, sorry, but for some reason, I just get some red flags when I think about the place. I don't know why specifically but it just feels like a place to avoid.
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