WTF is with prostate massage?

In 'Minneapolis Erotic Massage Parlors & Masseuses'

by msggrl

Incorrect credentials.
msggrl
04/13/2011 03:38 am

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It seems like ever since bella was closed ive been getting 5xs the amount of men wanting prostate massage!!!

ive said it once ill say it again
THIS IS SOMETHING I WILL NEVER EVER EVER OFFER!

i was working at my typical spa job was a bit slow so i place an ad
stating professional non sexual non erotic blah blah

so where in the hell does that make a person thing id do a happy ending
or that i would offer prostate massage?

in a nut shell a client came in from the ad i placed and he only wanted me to play with his ass! No i did not play into his games..

Does he get off by having girls that do not offer it touch him or wtf is the deal?

this is not the first time its happened? and i was not very lenient about it..
JDPhantom
04/13/2011 04:13 am

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Sorry to hear that, msggrl. Sadly, sometimes all it takes is a warm breeze to get the libidos of some doorknobs to run in overdrive.
msggrl
04/13/2011 09:44 am

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I have many diff ads and numbers.
it gets really irritating when i state non sexual and get solicited
The whole point is so every not and then when dealing with new clients
i wont be approached in a sexual manner
im not that am cute
i dont look like kaylana who its almost impossible not to touch

if a guy like back door fun good for him but im not the wont to have it with.
it surprises me how they think its normal and they are offended/upset i do not/wont do it
MsDymamite
04/13/2011 10:50 am

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if I were a gent. If its not listed in the ad or on website they probably don't offer it so I wouldn't bother to ask risking possible offense to the provider.
but some people don't think about that from that point of view & they ask anyway.
Although its a bit insensitive I can totally understand why guys do that.

I figure the fascination with prostate massage is because of the folklore behind it.

= intense climax for them.
Which is NOT completely true.
If someone does not know what they're doing you can cause serious injury.
I'm open minded but has to be someone I've seen quite a bit.
msggrl
04/13/2011 04:32 pm

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Whatever ad i place im true to the words of my ad it its sensual then its sensual if its ther its ther i try not to leave anything open ended...

if it was along term friend i might consider it but it was very rude how this guy acted.... I have a very high tolerance contrary to what it might seem ..

it just goes alone w the business some clients r gold other r coal
JDPhantom
04/13/2011 04:46 pm

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That's the thing though, msggrl, in this or any other business -- but, yeah, probably mostly in this sort of business -- people don't just read between the lines, they write between them. It won't matter just how plain as day you've done an ad or even told someone face to face, there will always be that one jackass who'll take the message the way he wants.
Roland1
04/13/2011 06:40 pm

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If you do not ask, you will never know. But, there is no point in being a jerk if you do not like the answer.
Mr.Mojo
04/13/2011 11:18 pm

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Face it All Massage therapists are Hookers anyway you look at it. we pay you serve us more money more xtra.. Don't tell me you're in this business not for the money. You're in this business because you love to heal peoples rightttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt?
msggrl
04/14/2011 01:01 am

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Being its my new year i have to be nice for the next few days and take a few days off im not going to start to open that can of worms...... so i think ill take a vac from emp ive been doing that allot lately
hiroller
04/14/2011 01:16 am

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There's no need to get upset. They are just asking. All you have to say is "no, I don't offer that service."
MsDymamite
04/14/2011 02:33 am

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Mr.Mojo wrote:
Face it All Massage therapists are Hookers anyway you look at it. we pay you serve us more money more xtra.. Don't tell me you're in this business not for the money. You're in this business because you love to heal peoples rightttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt?


Actually some of us DO care about helping you with common ailments rather than money.

I grew up in the Wellness, nutrition & homeopathic industry matter of fact.
I really hate hate hate to say this but its people with your attitude
that HAVE LITERALLY RUINED the industry for legit therapists in states like MN .

I bet you think we all are desperate, drugged out & unemployable too huh?
Hurrrrrmphhh!
Id be careful what you generalize .
Mr.Mojo
04/14/2011 06:31 pm

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VioletR. wrote:


Actually some of us DO care about helping you with common ailments rather than money.

I grew up in the Wellness, nutrition & homeopathic industry matter of fact.
I really hate hate hate to say this but its people with your attitude
that HAVE LITERALLY RUINED the industry for legit therapists in states like MN .

I bet you think we all are desperate, drugged out & unemployable too huh?
Hurrrrrmphhh!
Id be careful what you generalize .


It doesn't matter what I think. It is what it is..
MsDymamite
04/14/2011 11:28 pm

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Welp the laws in this state are about to change again if they keep bust the same people over and over
so fellas better find a safe lady or two you like and hold on to that contact info because I foresee that many will have to stop advertising or disappear altogether if the ones behind it get their way.


Another thing was brought up by some legit lady friends of mine
When we were out
I know its crazy
but they are actually considering suing the city as if it were sexual harassment because
they aren't protecting them from it and the constant inquiry of " happy endings " from would be clients .
Sad. But I totally understand. If one cant get the message across with words like NON sexual " or THERAPEUTIC ONLY " & they ask anyway maybe that would make people understand finally . :/

It the same with saying one doesn't offer prostate massage in bold letters yet you still ask anyway.
Its annoying. I mean Id be very irritated
if I had to constantly answer the same stuff I took hours to write on my site repeatedly day in and day out I wouldn't be so nice anymore.
I'm serious.

Let me clarify :
Massage is NOT prostitution.
Real cmts & lmts (like me actually spent time to learn anatomy physiology pathology etc pre Med. Education.
I happen to like being on both ends of the spectrum.

BDSM is NOT prostitution.

In MN currently It is NOT illegal to wear lingerie or to be topless /
nude during a massage provided you never touch the masseuse & she doesn't touch your junk.
However there are several statutes saying it is.
Therefore Id say its a very grey area.

Like I've been saying for over 11years, MN is one of the worst states because
The mentality of most people is their lack of knowledge so they lump everything in and generalize.

Sexual services in combination with either of those only then makes it prostitution.
So until people get that through their head your gonna be always confused.
MsDymamite
04/14/2011 11:32 pm

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I should mention tantric massage is not prostitution either because its a taxable modality.
until it becomes red tantra (sex) then its not legal, its prostitution with a fancy name
JDPhantom
04/15/2011 04:53 am

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Sorry, Mojo, but I'd really like to think that guys with your mindset are the minority. Unfortunately, like the right-wing conservatives, they're also the most vocal and so give the illusion that they're the majority. When will our society shrug off its puritan heritage and finally grow up?
BrunoBraun
04/15/2011 08:33 am

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You talk about right-wing conservatives being your nemesis. If I remember correctly it was a lady democrat council member who began the purge against the St. Paul MP's and, as for Minneapolis, I don't think right-wing fits in anywhere on that side of the river. These have been local actions. This state has been vastly liberal for decades. Even when republicans were in charge of the legislature they were liberals.
Derpdydoo
04/15/2011 08:57 am

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Well, I don't even remember a time when the legislature was controlled by Republicans on a state level.

As far as I recall he's writing from a Republican controlled state that has not only escaped the recession the rest of the country has, but, has even experienced growth, then blames "Bushonomics" for delivering pizzas.

Also pretty interesting that someone who can afford to hobby would equate that to being a "pauper".

Thank God Atlas Shrugged comes to film today. Maybe, others can take the Red Pill and see through the illusion that is modern day liberalism.
Derpdydoo
04/15/2011 09:00 am

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BrunoBraun wrote:
If I remember correctly it was a lady democrat council member who began the purge against the St. Paul MP's and, as for


Don't confuse a lib with facts. Latimer, Bayles-Shelton, Ryback, all just members of the "Right-Wing Conspiracy"

msggrl
04/15/2011 11:18 am

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I can name another place that got busted they did not do HE.
the man self serviced while the girl massages close to his junk but did not touch it and she got cited for prostitution and it came with a nice felony....

Im iffy about that 1 id try like hell to fight it.
I do not think it should have stuck.
That place was closed down not much later afterward.

I just spoke with a girl yesterday who said i know if its a cop i can feel them out. I said to her you better thing again! The way she conducts her business i cant believe she hasn't been hit already. new client no screening and saying sensual massage is _ .say that to the wrong person and off she goes....
JDPhantom
04/15/2011 04:53 pm

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Derpdydoo wrote:
Well, I don't even remember a time when the legislature was controlled by Republicans on a state level.

As far as I recall he's writing from a Republican controlled state that has not only escaped the recession the rest of the country has, but, has even experienced growth, then blames "Bushonomics" for delivering pizzas.

Also pretty interesting that someone who can afford to hobby would equate that to being a "pauper".

Thank God Atlas Shrugged comes to film today. Maybe, others can take the Red Pill and see through the illusion that is modern day liberalism.


Yes, I am writing from North Dakota, easily one of the most back-ass states in the country, both intellectually and culturally. At one time, I did have a decent enough job there in the Twin Cities, but the company I worked for jumped on the Bush bandwagon to help corporations and the wealthy out by sending the jobs of the working class overseas. Taking away the jobs of your people to jumpstart the economy? Yeah, that makes a lot of fricking sense.

And I don't hobby that often, two, maybe three times a year at most. I do have to save my money up for that, and I do want to make the most of my hobbying buck, which is why I visit these sites.

Maybe it's just time I put my money and my time to better use.
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