msggrl
03/15/2011 02:02 am

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If you get a good massage but no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras do you still tip the therapist?

4 years ago i remember a client telling me no happy ending y the hell did i tip you for.He started yelling at me and told me he will never come back i say good riddance!

in this case i was unaware he had tipped me upfront. the cashier did not tell me.( btw ) it was only $20 door fee was 100

back then i was always tipped now it seems as though no on tips anymore unless you do HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras or am i missing something?

ive just started to deal with not getting ive sucked it up to its probably the economy because im much more skilled now than i was 4 years ago?
hiroller
03/15/2011 06:12 am

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I tip $20 for a one hour massage if the provider pleased me (short of giving HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras.) I would guess the economy has a lot to do with people being stingier with money.

223ddr
03/15/2011 07:46 am

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I tip $20 to $40 depending on the massage time one hour or two. But i only tip if the quality is there and that does not depend on HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras. It lets them know they did a good job and always helps when I stop again.
Cities Boy
03/15/2011 10:20 am

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I would say that if you are performing a "legit" massage then you need to make sure that you are asking enough for your services and not depending on tips. The majority of us here want HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras so we are probably the wrong people to ask.
MsDymamite
03/15/2011 10:41 am

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HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">Extras or not.
I just don't expect tips nor would i ask for them.
crs27
03/15/2011 11:02 am

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I am like the rest. A massage with no extra's I tip $10-$40 depending on the service. If the massage was good, conversation was good, atmosphere was good, etc. I tip more. If service was poor...no tip or very minimal.
minbuckeye
03/15/2011 12:47 pm

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I've always felt that tipping is a reward for excellence and should not be considered pro-forma. I tip wait staff and determine the percentage based on the quality of service. The same is true with other service professionals. For example, I live in a three-story townhome. I tipped the DirectTV installer big time because he didn't even blink when he had to fully extend the 40 foot ladder and all the way up to the roof to install the dish. That guy had ice in his veins and I was impressed indeed. If I see and indy girl, then I figure she's keeping her whole fee, less expenses, and so I feel less inclined to tip if the service is average. Girls who work in parlors are giving up some or most of their fee for the house, so I take that into consideration when deciding whether to tip and I never tip upfront. Since a tip is an over and above payment for quality, and is subject to the discretion of the receiver, I think it is rude for a service provider to ask for one. So-called "tips" for HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras - well I don't mind upsells sometimes, but that largely depends on the upfront cost.
msggrl
03/15/2011 03:36 pm

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i never expect to be tipped when im seeing a client indy

when i work for my regular day job its kind of a down fall if im not tip only because i dont make as much. i stopped asking to be tipped years ago..

just wanted your thoughts on it
Roland1
03/15/2011 04:56 pm

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What is a massage with no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras?
Mr.Mojo
03/15/2011 05:16 pm

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I treat Massage therapist like Food Server ,good service big tip, bad service No tip..
JDPhantom
03/15/2011 05:18 pm

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Like the others, I tip according to the quality of service (and the money in my pocket, natch) -- the better the massage, the more likely and the better the tip. One therapist I saw back in 2006(?) I tipped $50. Like the dork I can be, I got caught up in a book and wound up running late for the appointment. Not only did she keep the appointment open for me, she provided her par excellent, completely legitimate massage and even extended the time a little bit. She didn't extend it so much that it would have pushed back her next appointment, but it did cut into her downtime between appointments. Even though she never offered any HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras, it was that sort of stuff that made Tara my ATF hands down. (cue: wistful sigh)

Roland, "What is a massage with no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras?" Um, that sounds like the beginning of a joke, sort of like "A priest, a rabbi, and a used car salesman walk into a massage parlor..." *g*
Cities Boy
03/15/2011 05:26 pm

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Roland wrote:
What is a massage with no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras?


It is like a guitar without strings, a car without wheels, a bank with no money, an EMP website with no reviews (). In other words - useless...
funmanhobby
03/15/2011 06:17 pm

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I tip for HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras if it is required. I have someone that I see regularly for massages that doesn't offer HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras. I do not tip her for each individual session, but give her some extra money in a lump sum during the Holidays.
Brahmabull
03/15/2011 07:35 pm

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I paid for the massage. Tips are generally for any service I have not yet 'paid' for. Thats just how it is.

If a massage is very good, I will give her something additional even without 'extra' service, but it would have to be a very good massage and I have had thousands....

If its just an average massage, that is what the 80.00 was for, you don't tip your dentist, doctor, mechanic, or the guy at jiffy lube, they are providing services too.

Have I tipped for just a massage, sure many times, but it is not my normal practice as so few therapists give a high quality massage....Most are just average.
Roland1
03/15/2011 07:41 pm

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Seriously, I have had a massage with no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras. IMHO it is a good massage and I tip an extra $20, since the girl does not get any of the house money.
Cities Boy
03/15/2011 08:42 pm

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Roland wrote:
Seriously, I have had a massage with no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras. IMHO it is a good massage and I tip an extra $20, since the girl does not get any of the house money.


I'd give her an even better tip than the $20. I would tell her to start offering HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras and she'll have plenty of money for herself.

Like the old saying goes, teach a man to fish...
msggrl
03/16/2011 12:25 am

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cities id be insulted if someone told me that. id probably tell them to go fly a kite


but cities if u catch the wrong fish dnr going to give u a ticket hee hee
223ddr
03/16/2011 07:44 am

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I have never been asked for a tip in a massage parlor that did not offer HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras but i tip because i feel they went over and above what was called for. But i have been hounded in places that did offer HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras but that had really bad service.If they ask for a tip is it a tip.
Cities Boy
03/16/2011 10:54 am

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msggrl wrote:
cities id be insulted if someone told me that. id probably tell them to go fly a kite


but cities if u catch the wrong fish dnr going to give u a ticket hee hee


True. But catching the right kind of fish and letting them off the hook is even worse.
MiaNoi
03/16/2011 07:25 pm

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I caught the perfect fish and let it go .Mistakes are always made as one grow older.
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