Recently I entered a supposedly erotic massage place listed on here. When I mentioned I wanted L1 together with the regular massage, they told me no erotic services are performed. This despite the fact that I showed them their adultsearch listing on my phone's browser. Naturally I walked away. A while after I left, it occurred to me I might have screwed up somewhere.I'm thinking that my mentioning L1 too quickly might have scared them into thinking I might be a cop. Assuming this is what happened then let me ask this: when you walk into a massage place without knowing anyone there, what is the best way convey the fact that you're looking for something erotic without scaring them? I'm concerned that if you don't mention it at all, you'll end up paying for and getting just a non-erotic massage.Can anyone give me some pointers?

Every place I go to for the first time I usually wait for them to offer services on the flip, but there are some places that just don’t offer full services because they’ve been caught before or some other reason. My suggestion is to check other websites that can tell you more about specific massage parlors. Asking right off the bat is a little suspicious if you aren’t a regular that they know.

1. Don't show them the adultsearch and other adult advertising sites if you are expecting something other than just a massage. This will scare them into thinking you are law enforcement of some type and all you will get is a massage. 2. Check what kind of clothing they are wearing. 9/10 if they have some sort of dress on, more than likely they offer 'other services'. If you are expecting more than just a massage and they aren't in a dress, then leave before you give them any money. 3. During the massage, touch their legs at some point. Make sounds and encourage them that you like what they are doing. Try to grab their legs forcefully and rub them while they are massaging you. This will let them know there is a good chance they will be making extra money on your visit. 9/10 this works. Only place that it did not work was at CHI Massage off of San Pedro. However, that girl has her own process of getting you laid. She is very dominant and has a big bust. If you come in through the back door, you get VIP 'adult' treatment. You enter in through the front door, you are just going to get a massage. She is very attractive, speaks great English but very dominant. 4. Pay with Cash. Doing the 60 minutes over the 40 gets you better service opportunities. I don't care for BJ or HJ but they like to give them because its a quick service to them. Not to mention, some of them really like to yank pretty hard and it's painful. The common rates are 40 for HJ and 100 for BJ. FS is usually 140 accept at Sea Shell where it is 160 (but worth it). If you pay in cash and they see you with cash, they will be open to providing 'extra services'. If you do CC, let them know you only leave a great tip if its 'worth a great tip' and then they will aim to please you more. 5. Read reviews on google/yelp and on adultsearch to find the best outlets. How you know is quite simple as the women who visit the massage places most often leave bad reviews and guys most often leave great/good reviews. Not too mention, googling the phone numbers will often bring up Escort history if its a reliable place. If you don't find anything adult related to googling the phone numbers, then more than likely its a legit establishment. Not always, but most often. 6. Don't be a dick. Meaning don't be demanding. In most cases, they plan on giving you a massage whether you want one or not. If you are a jerk to them, they will put you in your place when you are on the table and they don't mind causing you pain. Most people vent about their negative service in reviews but its not hurting their business models and even less of those people actually file a complaint with BBB or law enforcement. Which is why there are so many of them still operational. So, don't be a dick. Be polite and courteous and you will get what you want from them.