hi all
I was wondering if its normal to come within 2-3 minutes of a hj. My first one ever today was oiled up fast stroking and concentrating on head of penis while i was playing with the girls boobs. Is that considered premature ejaculation? If i cum this fast during a hj like this how long can i expect to last in a bj or fs with one of these girls. considering they take it slower next time?

Every hobbiest has his own duration. I would go for FS as I'm in control and not the provider. I last from 15 20 minutes in FS and end it with a BBBJ or HJ as it depends on the provider but I go through 5-7 positions.

thanks for the advice you guys! maybe i will try one of those trojan condoms with the numbing creme in them, i want more time to touch, talk and play before i cum. maybe you guys have some experience with these condoms? ive used fire-ice b4 which was pretty interesting
haha maybe next time i go ill bring some sushi, lay her down and eat it off of her or lick wasabi off her tits lmao

I use the Trojan Ultra Thin Lubricant condom. Feels like nothing is there. Tremlo has a good suggestion, tell the provider to slow down or give her a little direction but I would use that in a HJ. When I do FS, I'm in control. While I'm in a position, I would pull out when the anxiety and pressure starts to build and move to the next position. I have a routine. I would start with Miss, then switch positions to CG, RCG, then while in RCG, without trying to break the rhytmn, I sit up and move to DS. Then I go back to Miss and then finish with a BBBJ, if not then a HJ as I let the provider take over from there.

I think I remember from another post that you were 20 or 21? I had the same problem when I was younger. Basically I just developed stamina over time. Those creams take all the fun out. Can't feel a damn thing. Can't say it was a good solution for me. But the big factor is really the novelty and eroticism of the situation, IMO. Something about a lovely, beautiful Asian woman attending your needs. I'm sure you know what I mean. So it's really a mental game.

I agree with Tremolo though. Be honest with the girl and kindly direct her to slow down. These ladies know what they are doing and can draw it out if you ask nicely and you're not going over time. If you ask nice and your money is good you can get MSOG at M1 with most girls. That's another possibility. And if I recall, you like mature ladies? You might want to ask for Linda if she's still there. She looks about 55ish (to me), but still in good shape. Might want to negotiate with Mamasan before hand on that deal.