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Dude, Why The F... would you want to know which escorts provide that service? I find it hard to beleive there is a decent escort doing that service if she wants to stay in the biz. Crack whores, street walkers, have at em!!!!! IMHO. I've known a few escorts over the years through swinging events and dinner event dates, none want that reputation.
Well the point of this site is to share info and to help other members not make mistakes. Most of us and I am going out on a limb here and say MOST OF US, think that BBFS is very dangerous, and should warn members about it.
I for one want to know who is doing BBFS so I can avoid seeing them. I do not think we should judge someone who wants to do BB with provider, thats on him, I just want to avoid seeing her. I would warn someone too, if they do not listen, I can't help that.
Darwin's law applies to "unsafe" sex as well.
Stankopoto! Read my reply, IMHO!!!!! This genre allows people to voice their opinions as long as they are sincere. I always use IMHO, because I'm not trying to force my opinions or views on anyone. Maybe not everyone is as worldly as you. It is a good thing to let your fellow hobbiest know the perils of which you obviously gravitate to. I also have a hard time wrapping my mind around the fact that I'm stopping anyone from doing what they wish by making comments about a subject I have strong feelings about. IMHO!!!!
Um, it doesnt take a rocket scientist to know in this day and age BBFS is about the craziest thing you can do aside from going postal at an AMP. You either gotta be the most reckless SOB on the planet or you secretly have some kind of twisted death wish to want to pursue going unprotected with a prostitute. Either way I wouldnt help you find such a thing just because I wouldnt want you getting infected then going and infecting some unsuspecting soul.
C'mon guys, all advice is really an opinion anyway. Its an educated opinion. Wally can choose to ignore the advice he solicited or heed it. Like Rock said, its his choice if he wants to pursue something we all consider to be utterly insane. In good conscience I just wouldnt offer advice that could lead someone to contract HIV/STD. Thats the only reason anyone said something in the first place. We dont want to see someone do a crazy thing like that. I may love pussy but that doesn't make me a sadist.
Then again maybe Wally is a walking disease-infested herpes factory. Either way we ain't helping you mang.
Damn, the response has been visceral. I apologize for offending those of you who clearly have issues with this. For the record I have never had either service performed and was more curious than anything. Don't worry, no diseases here and not passing any along. Consider my question redacted.
Wallytown, you did not offend me. I do not wear my heart on my sleeve. I never thought for a minute I would raise such a fuss with my comment. I have a friend who has been swinging for years,when the free LOVE arena of the 70's was prevelant, condoms were non exsistant as I'm sure some of our older members can attest to. This guy now has full blown aids, has it under control but his sex life is all but over, his age 57. I guess I look at him and it blows me away. Once again IMHO, just not worth the gamble!!
What does the medical profession say about BBBJs? Some fellows enjoy the "swallow" action of a provider. Do we know if there are risks there? Also, what is the risk of kissing (mouth to mouth)? That often is a spontaneous action. Afterwards, how do we feel when we acknowledge that an hour from now, those same lips will be around someone else's fat unit or the tongue will be in an arsehole?
I NEVER do BBFS and fend off willing providers who want to slide their genetilia across my dick. It is a nice feeling, but too risky for me.
Do any of you have medical info regarding the BBBJ, kissing, and oral service?
Do any of you have medical info regarding the BBBJ, kissing, and oral service? [/quote]
There are some STD's, herpes for example, that even a condom may or may not protect you. For all those that like BBBJ's, yes you can get HIV this way. So those people are no different than the ones looking for BBFS.
Oooo! I was not sure that HIV could be transferred from a provider peforming a BBBJ. I will avoid as a precautionary measure; but, will continue to research. Sometimes, the BBBJ is spontaneous... she starts with HJ and tease, then suddenly it is in her mouth... gotta pull it out, I suppose. Darn!
Any STD can be transferred during any bareback activity, including doing the tits.....
BBBJ is dangerous. This is an activity that intermingles bodily fluids, including yours with whomever precedes or follows you with a given provider. And if she has a jagged tooth in her mouth, even a rubber will not protect you. Be smart, especially if you want to protect those in your life who are important to you.
It doesn't even take a break in the skin. If your getting BBBJ then there is your opening right there. Say the girl has bleeding gums due to gingivitis or whatever reason. That's how you can get HIV. As for herpes, it is contracted through skin to skin contact. So any areas, (for which there are many) that are not covered by a condom are open to getting herpes.
DANG! I thought I was practicing safety. The way some of you are talking, I need to become celebate. Abstainance is the only certain safety. Perhaps, I will look for a BDSM studio where I can spank a chick, then do a self HE shooting onto her face. That might be somewhat safe, ya think?
Safe sex.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YFC0O393DQ
HUH! Please explain!
Guys, I really think some of you are ultra paranoid. Yes bbfs is a possible way to transmit AIDS, but it is usually thru anal ex where there tends to be a lot of bleeding. .. thats the reason why its so prevalent in the gay community. Catching AIDS thru a blowjob is almost unheard of, it can happen in theory, but from what I know no documented cases are known.
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