What do men really want?

Food and Sex. (Not necessarily in that order)
Anything else we do is a diversion until we can get back to #1 & #2.

I'm not from Minnesota but I'm sure all clients have somewhat the same standards in any state. (1)For the provider or mamasan not be "clockwatcher". (2) Communicating with a client is nice but don't carry a "Motor mouth". (3)When offering the service, "Don't be mechanical". (4)Show some GFE, even a little is good. (5)There is a "standard table" for the pricing(Tip)and all clients and providers should use that table. Clients don't rip off the provider and be cheap and Providers don't upsell their clients. We know the economy is somewhat bad now and one shouldn't "add gas to the fire". These are several suggestions that should be the way to carry on a business.

No reason to reveal who you are as a great majority of members on this site don't even know each other.

Personally, I enjoy a good massage. Not a lot of oil or lotion slimed all over my back or one hand lazily rubbing my back -- a real, honest to God massage, a massage that will refresh and reinvigorate me.

I have to agree with Apache across the board, too. Motormouths are a major put-off, as well as mechanical, impersonal techniques. A rushed massage (with or without HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras) can get real aggravating, especially if it feels like the therapist is checking her watch every five minutes. Standardized tips are very convenient, too; if one therapist asks for one tip and another a different tip, I start getting second thoughts about going back there. And, yes, a little GFE -- even just a little playful affection -- can go a long way

i hate to say it seems if girls are American born they will all request a different tip amount.
as for myself i rarely ask for a tip...............unless its a special request so to speak.. my massage i think is well enough i often do not get tipped i also think its a pretty well known standard unless their independent?

i was taught way back standard tip for 60 min is 20 anything over u may very much like her or special request... it work for me so i stick with it?

I don't think it's just American-born therapists, msggirl; it's going to happen pretty much any place. One place I've been to that has Asian-born women (at least that's what they make themselves out to be), different ladies have asked for different tips. While it's largely dependent on the woman and her general attitude when it comes to tips, there are probably other factors when it comes to the tip a therapist might ask for -- how's business been; how have the clients been that day or that week; if the client has a lot of green in his hand and the therapist has no compunctions about lining her own pocket; when's the rent due -- any number of factors.

Some Canadian places I've been to are fairly consistent in tips, not just in one shop but in all the shops across the town. Here in the States though, it's been across the board. One fully legit and licensed therapist said $30 was too much for a 90-minute session, while a lousy and untrained masseuse told me she wanted a $100 tip for a 60-minute session -- with no HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras whatsoever. (Yeah, I just walked out on her.)

Tips are going to be very much a YMMV thing. If you and your co-workers are hoping for tips, please, be patient, reasonable, and accomodating (professionally and legally speaking now, not in the hanky-panky way *g*).

I cant believe she asked for 100 tip and shes totally legit? no topless or nude or anything geezus she think her hands are gold?

I dont ask for tips unless its s special request. I explain where im coming from and politely tell them its something to consider for next time. I dont like to cheap people of time or services. i never rush I do want to keep you as a regular. understand things from more a business point of view. i know i get a commission.Im happy with that. Its something more girls need appreciate. at least they have a job in this economy.

I've heard Canada is a much easier place to work.

Well, I don't know just how totally legit she was. The place had a major rep and it was my first time, so no extra accomodations was pretty much expected. But still, like I said, she had absolutely no massage skills (I don't think dogs would be too impressed by her petting skills either) and a major attitude of entitlement. She was just a really bad massuese in a really rundown place, and I'm glad that place is done and gone.

this remind me of a place clients told me about .
unfort she worked with us 5 days to long then was fired for lack of skill etc

I'll throw my two cents in .... What do I want the first time I go to a massage parlor? I want an excellent massage (as though the parlor were totally legit and did nothing else) AND then I want a full menu (FS). I wish you success in your endeavor!

Frogg is right. A good massage that works its way to some menu options is exactly
what men want. Its just that simple...

Frogg is right. A good massage that works its way to some menu options is exactly
what men want. Its just that simple...

No offense, Cities Boy, but please don't speak for all of us. if I get a great massage, even without HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras, chances are I will return. HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">Extras are just that -- HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras. They might be nice, they might be fun, but personally, that's not what I'm looking for first and foremost in a massage therapist. If I get an average massage and average HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras, I'll consider returning, but if I get a lousy massage, with or without HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras, I won't be back.

wanderer do u know of lucy is still working?
I've hears shes no longer in dinky... or is it a rumor?
I have a few clients that are looking for her.
as we al know those wonderful ladies provide good massage and nothing more..

msggrl, I have no idea. I only met Lucy once and that was last spring, if I remember right. She was a good and cool therapist, and she took it easy on me with the Thai stretches at my request. (As opposed to a "therapist" at San Mei a few years ago. I went there pain-free and left with an extremely sore hip, pain that continued for well over a month and still crops up every now and again. I'm definitely glad San Mei's gone.)

Some have already said, we want a great massage, but not just the 1st time.

We want to be treated like a king/pampered from the minute we enter until you close the door on our exit. We want the total spa experience.

If HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras are available, we like them too, and should be performed a possitive attitude like the rest of the service.

Im not a tip scale kind of guy, and I do not want the ladies to be taken advantage of by dudes who promise to take care of them then skip out on the tip, so if you have valued your HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras at a certain price point tell me, I will honor it. If I do not feel you were a value (service vs fee) I wont return. But if she is good I will return regardless of price.

Yes, I do realize what the name of the site is. But for me, the massage is very important. It's that time to relax and get acquainted with the lady on more than just a verbal level, a time to allow the outside world and its stresses to fade away. It's the prelude, it's the foreplay. For me, a great massage is the most erotic and most satisfying part of the session. The HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras -- *shrug* -- anybody -- any street walker, any girl from Craigs List or Backpage or Cityvibe -- can offer those, and I know I'll be walking away spent and frustrated and generaly unsatisfied and the next morning I'll probably have problems even remembering her. No, a great massage is part of a great experience, and something I will make every effort to remember and value.

I agree that the massage is an important part of the experience. A good massage will make HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras better. I also see a couple of girls that don't offer HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras, because their massages are excellent.
I would also like to know what happened to Lucy, a real sweetheart. She told me the city told her she had to move from the Dinkytown location.